"You don't have
to be an angel to be a saint." Albert Schweitzer
the primary burden of responsibility and control. She is
his equal or in most instances his superior with respect to
any aspect of the reproductive function. It is not that the
Female gender must acquire superiority via association with
other attributes, but rather that Femaleness is an
attribute in itself superior to the attribute to maleness.
Woman is the primary gender, and males the secondary gender
with respect to the function of reproduction. This is not a
minor point, since the reproductive function is the most
vital and important function, and in that central position
shapes all other secondary functions. Woman's gender
superiority shapes all of human reality and experience.
Having grasp the foregoing, my feelings about submission,
Female superiority, Female domination, etc. make a whole
lot more sense. These are not the stuff of aberration, but
rather the surfacing of a deep perhaps hardwired
understanding of the human biological reality, and the
roles of Women and men.
woman he turns to to "worship"...she made no promise to any
wife...is she off the hook? Unless the man has decieved her
too, she's guilty of ethically questionable behavior, but
the man carries the by far largest responsibility. In this
situation he's responsible for actively seeking out another
woman. You know what? If I walked in on my slave giving
some other woman an unauthorized foot massage, he'd be
whipped. I think a good whipping is more appropriate in a
case like that. Depending on who it is, I might More
appropriate than what?
You are assuming that submissive men seek a relationship
outside of their marriage for sex. A true submissive serves
his Mistress for the joy of serving Her. Anything he
receives is either a gift Her; or She feels so concerned
about him that any corrective measures are given out to
help him become a better person. Yeah, well, I didn't just
fall off the turnip truck, either. Laura Goodwin What about
submissive men who seek out a pro domina who states that no
sex will be involved? They didn't fall off a turnip truck,
either. As far as femdom as a means to female supremacy.
Any domination should have as its end result, mental and
emotional domination. not phyisical. The phyisical part
leads to the mental and emotional . This occurs when the
male orgasm has been completely feminized. As it stands now
the male erection and the orgasm it produces are nothing
more than blatant aggression. It fills the male mind with
ideas of power and control. This must be reversed. A means
of doing this is to reverse the conditions under which the
male is brought to orgasm. instead of man on top, man on
bottom instead of man in control, man tied up and under
control. instead of man orgasming when he wants to, man
orgasming when female allows him to if she allows him to at
all. eventually she does not allow him to at all and he
accepts this as the normal nor "forced" masturbation, no
occasion at all for the sub's sexual relief, BDSM is still
*supposed to be* an intense sensual and psychosexual
adventure. As a matter of fact, Pro doms *are* trafficing
in orgasms, as well as sexual fantasy enactments, and
anyone who thinks otherwise is So, I am naive ?? only about
how to get the two dots over the i Here's how it works Gal
runs an ad that says Ms. Domina Payne BDSM fantasy no sex
no straight. In/Out. Guy calls and says "Hey Ms. Payne, is
it true there is no sex involved? " She says yes, because
how does she know the guy is no cop? Guy comes anyway,
sincerely expecting no sex. If something about him seems
fishy, he won't get any. If she trusts him, or is so
desperate to build her business that she's reckless, or has
Mafia protection, he get a vibrator applied to his balls
within minutes.
In keeping with the theme of this packet, this section
includes resources that examine violence against women, the
new menUs movement, feminist perspectives on nonviolence,
and sexism on campus. We compiled these resources our own
library as well as the libraries of feminist groups across
the country. We were pleased to discover that the women's
peace movement has generated such a large and thoughtful
body of literature for us to draw . We have attempted to
include resources that offer innovative insights and
concrete suggestions for action. There is often an
assumption that men in the peace movement are somehow
different other men and therefore exempt oppressive
behavior and sexism. Unfortunately this is not always the
case. Many female activists have encountered problems with
male dominance. The nonviolent philosophies that guide many
groups can be considered sexist because they fail to treat
womenUs ⁄or grovelling, and wearing his fetish stuff. Isn't
this "sex"? Laura Goodwin { I read both Dee Ann's and
Laura's responses to Bedell's long letter. You two made
some great comments. But I suspect they fell on deaf ears
or should it be blind eyes be? . Just dump him. It's a big
world. He can find other people to pester.
I found this mailing list by looking up feminist on
Netscape. If this isn't a feminist mailing list, why is
under feminist? David, Your assumption that people on this
list are doing nothing other than sitting on their butts in
front of a computer screen is offensive. For all we know,
you are doing nothing more. In recent posts, Laura has
described what she is doing to further Female Supremacism
and to defend sexual and social freedom so that the climate
is less hostile toward FS ideas. Dee Ann is clearly putting
in a lot of time moderating this list more than usual
lately, it would appear . Others on this list have talked
about what they are doing and have offered suggestions for
others. I myself have been active in my local pansexual
BDSM group the Black Rose in Washington, DC since its
inception nearly years ago and have made assisted in
social/educational FemDom activities as time has permitted.
To answer your question, this list might be considered
feminist because FS mail to femsupremacy request
{renaissoft with the "help". We seem to have a couple of
guys posting to this list who absolutely, positively do not
get it. I believe that the energy we waste trying to tug
them into shape could be channelled more productively. I
don't want to be defending my life and worldview on this
list, and if you really think about it, neither do you. Now
I'm afraid I must insist that those who would like this
list to return to being the femsupremacy list say so now.
If I am the one who is wrong and should shut up, tell me
now, so I can unsubscribe and get friends, and an
international reputation. Although we get mail and visitors
all over, our aim will always be to remain a comfortable,
private club for local leatherfolk of all persuasions. WHAT
TO EXPECT We meet in each other's homes on Saturday evening
every two weeks, for circle discussion and fellowship. We
share information and ideas, and occasionally demonstrate
useful techniques. You'll get exposed to a wealth of
viewpoints, and will no doubt meet a number of people with
whom you "click". Whether you are "Top" or "bottom" or both
you will be respected here, and we ask that you treat other
members with gentle courtesy. With everyone's cooperation
we can keep our meetings a pleasant place to learn, and
make friends. Periodically you get invited to a party,
which is a good chance to dress up in your favorite fetish
gear and play. Monitors ensure safety and psychic comfort
for all. There is no membership fee. Parties are non
commercial social affairs , put to with their opinion of
natural science in general? Personally, I often feel
disappointment, when I listen to the economists of today.
They can all point to the problems, but as far as I have
seen and read, noone has offered a solution I find
acceptable. TH liberte! egalite! fraternite! I can agree
with two thirds of this motto, but I find the last third
questionable. There seems to be somewhat of a brotherhood
among the elite of the world today. Among the men, who
control the multinational corporations and the officials of
legislative and executive institutions. Right now it seems
we're going the wrong way very fast with increasing
inequality, which ultimately threatens the stability of
societys. I think it's time someone else got a chance to
try to do better. Magnus "Ain't no gangstas livin' in
paradise." Coolio
the simple REPLY NOW option on your . Would be interested
to know if this kind of communication goes to everyone who
is subscribed or just to you. Should u wish to contact me
direct, the ID would be internet . {compuserve Best wishes
in your search for information. Abie Mark, It would appear
that I have found answer to my own question, re
communication.
him for doing as you wish, and punishing when he
disappoints you. Use his fetishes as your tools...it's the
language of his own body's cravings, and he'll pay
attention on a deep level. Never need this process become a
warlike stuggle for a soul. In my marriage our souls are
both free, and united in a common task to build and enjoy a
perfect erotic harmony in accordance with our shared dream.
Laura Goodwin that friendly Hartford CT lady If our right
to go to hell in our own way is attacked, so is our right
to go to heaven in our own way. "The Bill Of Rights Is Past
Due!" End Forwarded Laura Goodwin "The wealth of the soul
is the only true wealth"
common sense but rare qualities mutual respect, loyalty,
trust, honesty perhaps above all others , kindness,
gentleness, responsibility, acceptance, a willingness to
listen, an open mind, a cooperative as opposed to
competitive spirit in other words all those things that
males have demanded of women the last years or so. The
women I follow whether in business or public life, or
privately, or spiritually all expect a reverence for nature
or usually an active commitment to preserving it , an
openness to awe or a spritual path in any or several forms
, erotic submissiveness or even post phallic behavior
without scripts or manipulation , love and care of
children, the elderly and animals, and a sense of humor . I
can't speak for others, but it works for me.
I would also love to see a copy of this. I am writing a
book the is along these lines and I want to do as much
research as I can before I really get into the meat of the
book. I can do that. Just tell me if you are running a PC
and want it ZIPped or a Mac and prefer it Stuffed. If a
Mac, you can also have it in its original form, as a
HyperCard stack or a HC stand alone app, graphics and
navigation buttons and all much nicer, in fact! Drop me a
line and tell me which. I'd like to see a copy of that,
too, if it wouldn't be too much bother. Mac format
preferred, HyperCard ideal, StuffIt archives almost a must.
Thanks!
business world of dollars and sense. My sexual needs seemed
to be different that most women. My hatred of capitalism
had kept me being able to compete. For me, the cultural
factors involved with mate selection were not material. The
spiritual symbol that our union would represent is more
than a biological union because I need to have metaphysical
consequences happen our sexuality, that our holy union is
helping created a neu global culture through the joint
efforts of our labor. The reality is that I can't find a
way to connect with a man in such a lofty, herstoric, and
divine sense. Goddess knows that I had tried! I thought
that if I had been inflicted with not being able to
contribute to the biological evolution of our species, be
what my purpose is to contribute to cultural evolution. But
I seemed to be failing miserably on that level as well. I
had tried with my ex husband to create the lovolution, but
he never really was into it even though he invented
the